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Flow Diagrams
Compressed system maps showing how incentives, signals, and structures actually move. Curated as they emerged.
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When Incentives Break the System
A child’s drawing revealed something most systems hide. This essay traces how misaligned incentives quietly reshape work, culture, and infrastructure—and how drift, make-work, and instability emerge not from malice, but from obedience to the wrong signals.
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When the Wheel Turns Itself
Driving is one of the last places where strangers cooperate in real time. As autonomous cars rise, we risk losing the daily practice of attention, generosity, and shared responsibility that once shaped civic life.
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When the Factories Left
When Michigan’s factories left, something else moved in. This essay traces how industrial collapse, policy incentives, and institutional drift reshaped entire communities—and why incarceration became the default replacement industry in parts of the Midwest.
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Children Play · The First Compass
Children follow delight long before adults learn to override their inner compass. This essay explores how early orientation is lost through fear, incentives, and noise — and how relearning delight can restore coherence in work, identity, and life.
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Integrating Demir’s Step 0 With Coleman’s Reconciliation Ladder: Pre-Contact Interventions in Family Estrangement for Clinicians
Most estrangement frameworks begin too late, assuming both sides can manage emotional contact. Shame and reactivity can block even skilled attempts. Demir Step 0 supplies the missing on-ramp sequence prior to use of Coleman’s reconciliation ladder.
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The Broken Clock
A childhood lesson becomes a systems lesson: even unreliable sources contain truth if you know how to detect it. In a world of noise and low-signal systems, leadership depends on recognizing the moment something is right.
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The Path Back
A missing teammate. A brittle room. A way back that was narrow, but real. A story about what it takes to return when standards have been broken.
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Frontline Decides Everything
The frontline is the brand. One rude voice can cost churches trust, clinics patients, and companies millions. In modern systems, receptionists, schedulers, and agents quietly decide access, trust, and outcomes.
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The Power of Crones
A systems-level look at why older women vanish from cultural sightlines, shaped by neural reflexes, mortality avoidance, and cultural programming — and how that invisibility restores autonomy, clarity, and freedom.
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Enmity Cured — Good Neighbors Are Made When the Cows Get Out
One snowy night, the cows got out — and something older than argument took over. A childhood memory of help offered without scorekeeping, and enmity quietly cured.
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Ecosystem of Tipping
Informal economies emerge everywhere, long before and long after formal rules appear. Most incentives don’t flow through rules. They flow through favors no one names.